結了婚後, 聽了很多婚姻變質了 的故事..

有好多好多 以前 都是 讓 還 沒結婚 的我 非常羡慕.

發現 很多 時候 是 由小事 堆積而起. 慢慢 越積越多.

開始 麻冤 對方的改變.

可是, 同一時候 對方 也可能 認為 自己 沒有改變. 改變 的是你.

大家 不知 何時 已經 不想 再 溝通了.


我問老公 “如果 有一天 發生 在 我們 身上 怎麼辦?”

我 說 “我們 去找 婚姻咨商專家. 好嗎?”

老公說 “好. 一有點 不是 很對勁. 我們 去找 婚姻咨商專家”

我 說 “你不會覺得 沒面子嗎? 很多人 會覺得 告訴 外人沒面子”

老公說 “不會. 如果 對婚姻 好, 就去吧!!”


ps: 可是,馬來西亞 有 婚姻咨商專家 嗎?





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  • #1 synyin 於 2006/03/23 16:53
  • synyin

  • 沒 聽 說 有 婚姻咨商專家 。 <br />
    心 理 醫 生 算 不 算 ﹖ <br />
    嘿 孕 婦 ﹐ 想 那 麼 多 怪 怪 的 問 題 幹 嗎﹖ KW <br />
    要 檢 討 檢 討 了。 <br />
    看 了 那 麼 多 版 本 應 該 會 有 個 借 鏡 吧 ﹗ <br />
  • #2 cychong 於 2006/03/23 17:09
  • cychong

  • ooo... not 怪 的 問 題. Must prepare for the worse. Nothing<br />
    wrong with KW, he still good to me.
  • #3 cychong 於 2006/03/23 17:21
  • cychong

  • I think even after 看 了 那 麼 多 版 本, it wont help. This is<br />
    the concluson after reading so much 版 本.<br />
    <br />
    The most important thing is when 婚姻變質, you must seek for the<br />
    solution. :)
  • #4 pan 於 2006/03/24 08:21
  • pan

  • my pastor is very concern on the young married <br />
    couples in our church, so he assigned family zone <br />
    couples to be some sort like mentor to look after and <br />
    advise them whenever require, they will meet up <br />
    periodically to share their feeling or <br />
    problem........and the mentor will share their <br />
    experience what they went through for years. i <br />
    beleive this is very helpful.........
  • #5 cychong 於 2006/03/24 11:10
  • cychong

  • Pan,<br />
    <br />
    Church? <br />
    <br />
    I wonder people will tell the truth to someone they knew. For<br />
    example, if they have sex problem, will they tell?<br />
    <br />
  • #6 姗 姗 於 2006/03/25 08:44
  • 姗

  • We have a Marriage Tribunal in Malaysia you know!<br />
    But Sadly, it's a useless organisation.<br />
    Troubled couples go there only because they want to <br />
    divorce and the the law made it compulsory for <br />
    couples seeking separation to get councelling from <br />
    Marriage Tribunal! From what I heard, the so called <br />
    EXPERTS there don't care to help you save your <br />
    marriage! As long as one party insist to divorce, <br />
    they will just issue you the certificate saying that <br />
    your marriage is MOU DAK GAU (irretrievably broken <br />
    time with you possibility of reconciliation), then <br />
    with that piece of paper, you can proceed with court <br />
    proceedings to get divorced... marriage tribunal <br />
    process will attempt to hold your marriage intake for <br />
    a mere 6 months, that's all!
  • #7 cychong 於 2006/03/27 11:18
  • cychong

  • San,<br />
    <br />
    This is too sad. :(<br />
    <br />